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Perhapse everyone needs to stop and consider before the next time they judge,you never know what someone has been through.....

Amy Miller,age 18 she has always been the most popular young lady of her class,Shes got the looks,The walk and the Talk lol.
Her grades are nice wich some say wish could double for her attitude.....But what you may not have known ya know is that Amy grew up in a household with a drunk as a father who beat her mom all the time and had to hear it continuously.....Maybe shes just afraid to loose what friends she has an be abused,Perhapse it would be good if she was nicer to everyone and not justto the "In" crowd,But people do strange things when they are scared.....
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Adrian Smith,He wears all black his head is down and he sits alone.When you see him talk every now and then he seems to always have a smile on his face,But yet he looks like a freak.Hes dark and quite,you instently judge him as a bad person.....But maybe what you didnt know abut him is his sister was killed in a car accident when he was about 8.He realy loved his sister and they got along great,He wears black because he feels comfortable.He doesnt always like to talk because hes still trying to deal with everything.Yet when he does hes a nice guy.But If you saw him and judged him,You would never know him,cause you would probably say hes bad.....
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Chris Field,He casualy sits back and doesnt do much of anything,He dresses commonly and likes some sports but isnt a fanatic or anything.People sometimes talk to him but they dont realy want to.Hes not the most oustanding individual by looking at him,wich we find is a standard for some of us....What you may not know is hes probably one of the funniest people around.He can make you laugh at any time and has a nice way with words.Also hes sick,He may have something wrong with him hindering being to outstanding in class....you never know,But you wouldnt want to know this guy anyway,hes nothiing special..........
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All im trying to say here as that there is an infinite amount of possibilities for a persons past.We never know what someone has gone through so we shouldnt be so fast to judge.Sometimes yes,people are just to downright rude to realy get to know.And thats fine,they could try and be nice ya know.But maybe we shouldnt just decide about someone just by looking at them ya know?Think about this,Cause you never know what has happened to the next person you look at.

Matt
I wrote this little synopsis up as like kind of a way to get a point across,All humans are guilty of judging in many forms or fashions and this is a basic introduction to such events,But what it may deal with is how a person is on the outside may be because of something they bury on the inside.We never know what can hurt someone so bad till we know there secrets,Just take a look and you will understand Im sure ^^

Matt
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one-of-my-lies Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2005
People can be really naive sometimes, thinking that bad things only happen to them. My friend is like that sometimes and she doesn't even realize it.
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Imnotant Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2005
Yeah we have humans tend to want to relate everything to us,sad things especially.you vget alot of extra attention,a faultv thats most common,but well off avoiding!
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PhoenixWave34 Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2005  Professional Digital Artist
Oh jeez I almost forgot to mention... when I was reading the second one about the goth... I remembered a certain person... You see, my senior year in high school I learned of this girl who had died of cancer when I was in 8th grade because my boyfriend at the time's best friend Colin had actually gone out with her before she died. Later in the year, in my math class, we had a substitute for the day who was very gothed out... Colin mentioned afterward that the substitute was the brother of the girl who had died, and that he had changed immensely from how he was before she died... so basically Matt, your story is very true...
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Imnotant Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2005
I see,Thank you for sharing that with us.Its sad to know that sometimes these things happen,but yes once again another reason we learn not to judge.Im realy hoping we can all learn this.

Matt
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PhoenixWave34 Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2005  Professional Digital Artist
Very very true... people are so shallow... we all know that each and every one of us judges others, we can't help it it's just human nature. But we have to try and realize that we do this, and train ourselves out of it... or at least train ourselves to know that our judgements should not stay permenant...
Myself, I have trained myself to put people in one of two categories: one being people that I just don't think I could be friends with no matter how well I get to know them.. particularly annoying people or just extremely stuck up people; and the other being people that I may be able to get along with eventually... But I never try to assume what a person's been through or why they are like that, I am sure to always keep that possibility open.

Very nice work Matty, it needs to be realized by more ^^
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Imnotant Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2005
=D thank you very much,Yes judging is unfortunatly hard to avoid but as you stated we have to be able to train ourself not to stick with first impression.Thanks for the comment ^^

Matt
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wolfystroke Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2005  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
no affence i didnt read it all but i had input about half way through... some people may have had it rough, whether they decide to show it or not... death, abuse all roots of which any plant can flourish... but those who have it half way decent, they do not deserve to act so rough and tumble... the "goths" i see everyday do nothing but act as immature as they come..... sure some may have had it hard but some just chooseto make it hard for themselves, or to make it look like life has delt them the Ace and the Eight... but truely half of them have no idea of how deep life can run... my life, i can only catagorize as the year of the dragon is..." i am eccentric and my life complex"... not a day has gone by that my life has not tempted me with my sharpened instruments.... i cant explain it all but i know its worth nothing to me... the people, few of which have the kindness to approach me, a basic outcast, a "nobody" and speak words...i ask for just a little kindness, a little attention for the many, but by expecting from such a extravgant number, i ask a lot from the world... things road me into the ground today of all days.. my body was but a husk after a quick review of my current position..... i have so little friends, and although i hold a boyfriend position, i have no girlfriend..... and thats only surface tention in comparison to it all as a mass... and that is its striking method of choice.......people... i dont care how they look... if they are nice, open and trustworthy... then i see othing but ther personality... but that goes same for the arrogant, slutty and "gothic".. without words or a show of kindness, then they exist to me as only that, and that alone....WOLF
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Imnotant Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2005
The focus of this was not to show how hard someone has it or anything like that.The focus of this piece was to simply not assume that there life has been fine and that they are the way they are just because.Sure some people do that but its never up to us to decide who.We dont know what anyone elses life has been like at all and thats what the focus is.Some people may make it hard on themself just for pitty or anything,But im not dealing with that.Im simply saying that We have no right to judge so fast why someone is the way theya re,if we dont even know them.
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wolfystroke Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2005  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
point taken and was already understood.. im just saying some people in my book deserve no right in the assumption of their character cause they show no right in their action.. no kindness, no helping hand... some taake it upon themselves to tease and taunt... actions and experience make up a being... everything falls in those catagories... action meaning what they say do,.. experience meaning what they have learn or events that altered their life... all of this molds the personality..... your point i understood... just thought id throw in some of my input on how people should be viewed... you dont need to know what makes them, they make themselves with ever move they make....WOLF
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